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2006-01-14 || Happy Belated 400th Entry - A Brief History | |
Wow. I just noticed that I recently passed the 400th entry mark for this diary. Normally, I do some silly special entry for every 100th milestone, but this time all I can think about is the beginning and why I started writing here in the first place. On January 28th, it will be 3 years since my first entry here at the sockgirlie site, and since that first little entry about a smelly woman in my office back in 2003, so many things have happened and changed in my life. What started out as just a fun little something to keep me in the habit of writing on a semi-regular basis has led to me meeting some amazing people who inspire me, who make me laugh, and more importantly, who have become my friends. What some of you may not know is that I originally started writing on another diaryland site in November of 2002, which was felicityp. That site chronicled the slow demise and ultimate break-up of my relationship with the ex-Great Love of My Life and its aftereffects. I didn�t want to write that site under sockgirlie, because that is a known nickname of mine and the other site was so personal that I wanted to keep it so it could be written by anyone. As many of you know, I tend to keep a lot of personal and emotional things off of this site. Every once in a while I throw an entry in for good measure, but I generally keep the stuff to myself. Not that I get all emotional like that all that often or that there has really been too much going on lately that I would have to tell, but still. However, in the case of my ex, the situation was so new to me and so confusing and devastating that I just felt like I needed to write the stuff down and get it out there to make me feel better. Purge out the heartbreak. It was very therapeutic, and most of the time it did help. After a while, I started to get comments and e-mails from other online writers who had been through or were going through similar situations, and I slowly started to become part of the whole online journaling community. I know Heather over at Dancing Brave was going through something similar at the time, and I also had a few other people who were just there for me, championing me on through my struggle. Actually, here�s what I said about those awesome ladies back at the time: I feel really weak. There are some amazingly strong women who have been supportive of me and all that I'm going through - you have no idea how thankful I am for everything they say - I just wish I were that strong. I don't know if I am, and if this is just something we all go through as well. I feel like we are sisters, soldiers going through similar battles. It's nice to know there are comrades out there. I still can�t begin to describe how much it meant to me to have these people help me through what turned out to be some of the darkest and most devastating times of my life so far. And oh, how dark it was. Don�t believe me? Check out some of these quotes from my old diary: But it's a different life I'm living now. As much as I would like to go back to my old life where I was blissfully unaware of such love existing, I can't. My life is forever changed and I have to fight to figure out what this new path I'm heading blindly on will be all about. I haven't been really excited about anyone I've met, and there have been some pretty great guys. I hope this isn't the way it will always be. I want this new life to hold everything and more. I also want him to stop haunting me. I can't move on properly if he is still there, hiding in the corner, whispering my name. I also can't deny that I still love him and want nothing more than to be back in his arms. Yeah, those were good times. Actually, with the help of time and some encouraging friends, I was able to deal with a lot of that stuff, up to the point where I was able to say this in my goodbye entry: I feel so fortunate to have met the boy. Even after meeting him the first time and thinking I would never see him again, I knew I would never be the same. For the first time in my life I finally believed that someone like him could exist. All of this big �love� stuff that felt so overstuffed and fantastical could exist in reality and not have to be so over-the-top with all of the stars in the eyes and flying birds overhead. It could be real. Something I could hold on to and feel, with someone who could actually change my life. I know, gag on that last part, but it�s true. Anyway, back to what has become a history lesson of this site. Aren�t you lucky? Anyhoodle, Once I became part of the community, I found that I really enjoyed being part of people�s �lives� or what they shared of them, so I started this site so I could work on getting back to lighter material while continuing to practice my writing and find my �voice.� I didn�t want to change the other site up � after all, I was still writing there and I wanted to keep it as just a journal about him. It would have a beginning and an end, and while I would have preferred a much different ending, it still had one nonetheless. I wrote my final goodbye entry over there in September of 2003, and by that time I was fully ensconced over here and loving every minute of it. Seriously, I love hearing from people who respond to something that I write here, I love reading other people�s sites, and I love the great things that have happened to me and the people I�ve met because of all of this. It really has changed my life, and all for the better. So thank you all and I hope to be around for another 400 entries! Now, back to our regularly scheduled programming. See you Monday for the Golden Globes! Site Recommendation of the Day: My boy Frito (2nd cousin? 3rd? Oh, who knows - all I know is he's male me.) just started a site here, and he's already got me laughing with the first entry. Bookmark! before & after 2007-09-26 - Follow Me! 2006-09-30 - Site Move & Favorite Entries 2006-09-25 - Evil Easter Bunnies & Rock Climbing! 2006-09-22 - Shameful-Purchase Hiding & A New Dentist Plan 2006-09-19 - Birthday Picture/Video Diary & The Wheelmobile Copyright 2003-2006 by Sockgirlie. Stealing is wrong. |